I have found a suitable titl in V14 can this be loaded in V12?
It can be loaded (with the Library Manager) but will not be recognized or used by AC 12.
Or be saved as a V12 gsm file?
Not easily, as there is no simple way to save an AC14 library part as an AC 12 library part.
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