Following up here.... I was premature in saying everything was OK for me with Arlantis on the Nehalem 8-core. I had not tested Artlatis on a big phat model (475 MB) and after suffering crash after crash I finally downloaded the CPUPalette (it's a process, search around on the net for how to do it) and sure enough this fixes it. Note that Arlantis Batch also dies mid-render when fed the full 8 cores. I needed to throttle back to 4.
Once again I'm indebted to Karl. Thanks man.
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2023 MBP M2 Max 32GM. MaxOS-Current