All library parts have the GSM extension, but the one you are looking for might not be stored in the Library but in the ArchiCAD.dll file instead.
Check this post where I write how to open and save a copy of the Window/Door Marker you need:
http://archicad-talk.graphisoft.com/viewtopic.php?p=129246&highlight=open+subtype#129246
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