If you are working on an AC file that big, with only 2 GB of (slow) RAM, you should probably not have anything else running - such as Outlook, Word, etc. Sounds like you are thrashing to your disk for virtual memory. Can you hear a lot of disk activity while these delays are happening?
Besides thrashing, if your page file was set up with the Microsoft defaults, the page file itself is likely fragmented, only compounded the issue. Fixing the page file aside ... when is the last time you defragmented your drive(s)?
That said, if there are a huge number of attributes loaded, it can take a few seconds for Attribute Manager/etc to open - vs instantaneous with the default attribute set.
Sorry to hear about your frustration.
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Karl
One of the forum moderators
AC 28 USA and earlier • macOS Sonoma 14.7.1, MacBook Pro M2 Max 12CPU/30GPU cores, 32GB