well, there are more thing sot take into consideration, like network settings and hardware, ram etc...
That being said, yes it can take some time. Reserving All and then Send & Receive from your pc will make the BIM server to look for changes in the whole file structure. You don't need to do that all the the time, not even for solo projects sitting in the BIM Server.
-- on a side note check where the DWGs are sitting, if these are on a different location ( other server, or some one else's pc) it'will take a bit to go and check that the linked files are ok)--
Hope it helps
Nando Mogollon
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