Well, since the cavalry is nowhere in sight, try these ...
1) Place to a worksheet first, then place the worksheet onto layout, or
2) import the autocad into a file just for the autocad and then reference that into the "real" file, or if all else fails
3) Set up "Alignment" polylines located on the layouts pointing to a match point or target element. Place these prior to changes, then drag things back into place, using the alignment polylines.
Draw the polyline in the placed view first, then copy it onto the layout, that avoids trail and error in placement. use a layer that you can turn off so you can keep the alignments for the project duration.
HTH a little,
Snap
PS I think #2 should work best