It is probably not a 'Construction Documentation' problem so I have moved it to the more general 'Working in Archicad' section.
It sounds like you have turned off your "Quick Selection" (magnet).
You will find it in the info box options when you activate the selection tool.
Or do as I do and leave it off - makes it easier to let go of selections just by clicking anywhere that is not a node.
When you want to select a surface you just hold the SPACE bar which is a temporary toggle that actives the quick selection.
Barry.
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