could you have your friend save them as ArchiCAD 8.1 files, or is this not a possibility? if hes willing you can just open the file in 9.0, file->save as->ArchiCAD 8.1 solo project (*.pln)
Other than this, I don't have any ideas, as I've never had to move backwards in file format, so I'm not sure how ArchiCAD handles it
HTH,
dan