Give your friend an archived, pla, of your file. This will include all the library parts and attributes that she is missing.
To make one File> save as> choose archive/.pla as the type of file.
Erika
Architect, Consultant
MacBook Pro Retina, 15-inch Yosemite 2.8 GHz Intel Core i7 16 GB 1600 MHz DDR3
Mac OSX 10.11.1
AC5-18
Onuma System
"Implementing Successful Building Information Modeling"