So- yes I used the add ons suggestion for one computer and it worked for them.
Not for anyone else.
I then had this stupid problem occur on my computer- which obviously annoyed me more.
So Myself and the other computer did a complete uninstall and reinstall.
Still the other computer is showing/doing exactly as Chris B explained.
I haven't checked mine yet- but I don't think I am hopeful- how ever I will let you know if it did make a difference.
Anywho- I called my archi cad tech guys (We pay for this subscription of sorts to get help when we need it) They said they don't know, try the ArchiCAD talk forum HELLO! and try the wiki site, and that they dont really know how to fix this or what the problem is. More frustating than I have experience thus far with ArchiCAD. I dont personally usually have problems with it just hepl fix other peoples. But, here I am, stranded.
He did say though, to try this: that is to hold the alt key and go into to file menu and New will become NEW and Reset. This sets archicad settings back to the way they were out of the box. In any event this didn't work either.
So here we are- drooling in front of our computers with 96 custom panels in a huge house that needs a window schedule-
Assuming I don't get an answer here can some one please tell me who I can call to help me? That WILL know? Someone has to know right?